Couples Are Now Getting 'Airport Divorced' for the Sake of Their Sanity

Traveling tends to bring out the worst in people—the chaos of security, the stress of finding your gate, the unpredictability of delays. Throw in the endless lines and abundance of stimuli (who else hates crowds?) and you’ve got a pressure cooker of conflict just waiting to boil over.

But what if there was a way to arrive at your destination relaxed and bicker-free? Allow me to introduce you to the “airport divorce,” the latest controversial travel trend that has the internet in a tizzy.

The term was coined by British journalist Huw Oliver in a 2025 piece written for the Sunday Times. In it, he projects, “I’ve found the secret to a happy relationship: an airport divorce.” After one too many fraught jaunts through duty free with his travel companion, Oliver and his fiancée decided it would be best for their sanities (and relationship) to part ways after passing through security: “At the airport we transmute, werewolf-like, into unrecognizable beings,” he admits, noting there’s just something about the stress of an impending flight that brings out his Type A neurosis and his partner’s laid back Type B persona.

“What this means in practice,” Oliver writes, “is that, before the gate number is announced, I like to sit somewhere with a direct view of a departures board…so I am ready to leap up and half-walk, half-run in the right direction. [My fiancée], on the other hand, is well aware that the plane isn’t really going to start boarding 45 minutes before departure. So she browses. And browses. Taking pleasure in her only real responsibility in that moment: being to make it onto the plane and challenging herself to be the last on board.”

As a true Type A married to a quintessential Type B, my husband and I can relate. And like many people, our baseline demeanors are only amplified (and in some cases, turned completely on their heads) in stressful environments. In his piece, Oliver cites a 2023 British Airways survey in which over half of respondents admit they “adopt a new identity” upon arriving at the airport. Navigating this, plus any frustrations that come along with it, is often what leads couples to inevitably butt heads.

In our recent viral Instagram post, readers were divided on this controversial trend. Some were all for it: "I am an arrive 20 minutes before boarding person and my partner is an arrive 3 hours before boarding person; we should 'airport divorce' before leaving the house, TBH." — @emily.cappiello. Some against: "If you can’t navigate the airport with your partner without it being a disaster, you’re with the wrong partner," — @thecubancarrie. And others with a tasty hot take: "My husband and I already do that. Unless there’s a Chili’s in the terminal. Then it’s date night." — @fruit_rolepp.

The travel experts, however, can see the benefits. “The idea of an airport divorce is genius,” Clint Henderson, journalist and spokesperson for The Points Guy, tells me. “Many couples have irreconcilable travel differences, and an airport divorce makes total sense.” What might seem like a strange quirk to one—walking a quarter of a mile to “see” the gate before doubling back to grab a snack or use the bathroom—could be soothing for another. “[I’d] even take it a step further and suggest you [do] it before security,” Henderson shares, “especially if only one of you has TSA PreCheck or Clear.” Letting your partner zip through PreCheck while you slum it with the normies in the regular line? Now that’s true love.

If the sleep divorce movement taught us anything, it’s that people love to consciously uncouple (in the name of a healthy marriage). But is this relationship hack the secret to stress-free travel? All departure signs point to yes—at least until boarding group B is called.