A Bark Phone differs from other kid-friendly phones, like the Gabb, because it does have the option of internet (but you get to decide on access). Additionally, the Gabb does not allow you to block callers, which felt pretty important to me.
"Being able to approve or reject callers was huge to me, as well as the ability to monitor messages and receive alerts about troubling behavior," Davison adds. "A 2022 U.S. Department of Education study found that 21.6 percent of students reported being bullied online or via text, and as my daughter gets older, I've been worried about how kids today deal with a bully they can't escape, with messages buzzing in their pockets and on social media."
To that end, the Bark Phone also stands out because it gives you the ability to control it, offering peace of mind as a parent. Case in point: The first day my kid had the Bark Phone, the app alerted me to text messages being sent and received that were flagged for bullying, profanity and sexual content. When I reviewed said messages, I saw that it was mostly harmless kidding around that middle schoolers do, but still, not appropriate. Therefore, even though my kid was at school, I was immediately able to put the phone on “pause,” meaning they could only use it to reach emergency contacts (me and my husband).
Later, we had a discussion about appropriate use, took the phone away for two days and hopefully taught an important lesson in responsible communication.
The Biggest Pros of the Bark Phone
I strongly believe that just handing over a smartphone to a tween or young teen is like giving them the keys to the kingdom. Bark allows us parents a level of control that I have not seen on any other device. (Even though my kid is begging me to add Snapchat to the phone, the answer, at least for now, is no.) In today’s world of bullying and predators, I love being able to monitor everything without worrying about my child deleting things (or being pressured to do so), and I love being able to track his whereabouts.
"It really provides peace of mind for parents, from the location sharing—so you know that your kid made it from school to karate, or wherever they're headed—to being able to approve of callers," Davison says. "When unknown numbers, for example, tried calling the Bark phone, they were intercepted and flagged for approval. Even if it was a relatively harmless spam call, it was nice that it wasn't getting through."
The Phone's Cons
According to my kid, the downside is that it’s not an iPhone, but to be frank, I don’t care. I was prepared to get a flip phone, and this phone is way more functional and cooler. And as a parent, the only con, for me, is seeing my 12-year-old walk around with a phone period. (To combat this con, we had him sign a phone contract which includes not being on the phone at the dinner table, religious school or right before bed.) At the end of the day, this phone is gold, but you still have to be the parent.
"I love that you can set routines to limit screen use during bedtimes and school time, but I did find setting those to be a bit glitchy at times, using my app," Davison says. "The website offers plenty of step-by-step tutorials and videos, though, and after restarting my phone, it worked just fine."